Ran into tinder match IRL
Feb. 15th, 2019 11:19 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
anniethebruceSoooo tinder. I was formulating an actual message to send to a match that's been there a while(I've previously sent a "hey"), then I run into someone looking very much like her only different tattoos.
Of course a recent pic on Tinder shows the new ink.
This seems awkward, like if I don't mention I saw her it feels like I'm hiding something. But saying I did almost sounds stalkery, even though it was entirely a chance sighting it might still look bad and many women are justifiably very touchy on that sort of thing.
Also possibly complicating this is she looked at me. Unsure if it was seeing the movement and checking it out, if she thought I might need help(she was at work), or might have recognized me too?
This is all confusing to me and there are probably social norms for this sort of thing that I completely missed for any number of reasons.
Of course a recent pic on Tinder shows the new ink.
This seems awkward, like if I don't mention I saw her it feels like I'm hiding something. But saying I did almost sounds stalkery, even though it was entirely a chance sighting it might still look bad and many women are justifiably very touchy on that sort of thing.
Also possibly complicating this is she looked at me. Unsure if it was seeing the movement and checking it out, if she thought I might need help(she was at work), or might have recognized me too?
This is all confusing to me and there are probably social norms for this sort of thing that I completely missed for any number of reasons.
